My title of this post:
This is one of the
poorest explanations of the pro-gay Christian positions that I have ever heard.
Working through the video by John Shore and his wife,
Catherine. It is 12:51 minutes
long. The title is, “My wife and I on
why “God condemns homosexuality” is irrational, unbiblical, unfair, and
un-Christian.
But first, John hasn’t yet stated what type of intimate sexual
behavior is consistent with Scripture, from his perspective as a Christian and
thus where that behavior crosses the line into being sinful in his
opinion. He seems to focus on the far
ends of the spectrum. Does he agree that
all sex anytime, as Evan Hurst has said, saying sexytime, whatever that
actually meant, is biblical? And is John comfortable
saying that he is more than a cultural Christian as Evan Hurst says that Evan
is and as Evan says that Dan Savage says that Dan is?
Working through the video.
·
Being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual,
transgendered. However is that about
behavior or identity, orientation or attractions?
·
They don’t define what “a Christian” is.
·
Full equality, in all areas of life, including
in marriage and in the church. What does
that mean?
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Define the term, condemn.
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Define the term, gay people.
·
Catherine is pretty direct, right from the
start. “no-where in the Bible…” “the Bible does not say…” statements.
·
So, Catherine doesn’t define the key term that she
uses, gay people. And she doesn’t define
the term, condemned. So, how can she be
speaking about what she thinks that God doesn’t do, when she doesn’t even use
terms that she has defined?
·
Catherine doesn’t define the term,
homosexuals. So, it makes it easier for
her to say God doesn’t condemn homosexuals.
Is she referring to attractions or behavior or identity? 1 minute in.
·
Why would John bring up the number of passages
there are in the Bible? Why doesn’t he then
also mention how many passages are in the Catholic Bible as well?
·
It’s odd how John tries to say that Christians
don’t follow the codes of the Old Testament today, to try to make his point
about sexuality.
·
Catherine doesn’t define the term, love. And she really hasn’t even defined the term,
law. So, why is she trying to speak
about loving comes over law?
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So, how is John showing love and compassion
toward me over any rule or law, by blocking the rest of my comments to his blog
site? 2:26 minutes in
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Odd how Catherine
talks about how Jesus broke the law. And
so definitively. Again, how does she
justify my comments being blocked even from this article at John’s blog
site? It still sits right there, as
potential comment #3:
o
“Your
comment is awaiting moderation.
o
John, for
some reason, three of my comments are still awaiting moderation at: http://johnshore.com/2013/09/04/introducing-the-not-all-like-that-nalt-christians-project/comment-page-1/#comment-370851
·
John is harming me by disrespecting me by
blocking my comments when he is soliciting to the overall public. He is harming an entire set of the population
who are sga-nga (open about personally experiencing some level of same-sex (or
same gender) sexual attractions and are not gay-affirming in terms of their
intimate sexual behavior or their identity, by speaking against them, yet
suggesting that wants to also represent them.
·
Not to harm, malign, or oppress anyone…. he
says. Yet, he is doing it to me. 3:32 minutes in
· Why does John talk about 3 Clobber
passages? That terminology is more than
10 years outdated.
·
And John uses the term, Christians, in this
broad brush stroke approach, actually meaning any subset of all of those who
call themselves Christians or cultural Christians or nominal Christians… who do
things he doesn’t like.
·
Catherine is so sure that the apostle Paul
wasn’t writing anything that has anything to do with gay people today – when
she hasn’t yet defined who, gay people, are.
And she is so confident in her pronouncement of what she knows for sure
that Paul knew about people who experience same-sex sexual attractions.
·
So, Catherine is using the Oxford
dictionary. And yet she hasn’t used it
to define all these terms that she has been using.
· Catherine still doesn’t define what the term,
homosexuality, means. Is it about
orientation or behavior? 4:23 minutes
in.
· So now John goes right in with his
unsubstantiated statement that today we know that people are born gay. And again, when he hasn’t yet defined the
term, gay.
· What is the point that no one in Paul’s time
thought of themselves in terms that we use today, such as gay or lesbian? Some sure thought of themselves as
experiencing same-sex sexual attractions, and some likely experienced those
sexual attractions from a young teen age, during Paul’s time.
· It was not, as John claims, that all homosexual
sexual activity occurred by straight people acting in homosexual ways in the
time of Paul’s writing. How odd that
John would say such a thing. 4:50
minutes in
· John claims that in his time, there was no
concept of gay people… What? How can he
say such a thing? This is just becoming
bizarre. John is 4 years younger than I
am. I knew about people who said that
they were gay when I was growing up.
5:03 minutes in
· 8 more minutes more to go… I’m going to have to listen to this in
stages.
· John doesn’t talk about why the APA changed its
position in 1972. The classification
before 1972 did not consider the person who experienced same-sex sexual
attractions as a straight person. But
then, John doesn’t even define that term, before using it. There is a big difference even today between
a straight person, an ever-straight person; a straight person in terms of
identity, a straight person in terms of behavior, a straight person in terms of
predominate attractions, a straight person in terms of same-sex sexual
exploration, and a straight person who enjoys receiving sexual pleasure from a
gay person.
· It is not true that the entire concept of gay
people is entirely brand new. It simply
is not true. This is just odd. And he still hasn’t defined the term, gay
people. 5:33 minutes in
· The concept of LGBT didn’t exist in Pauls’ time,
John keeps saying. Which is not true, in
that Paul did have an understanding of people who experienced same-sex sexual
attractions, and people who experienced both same-sex sexual attractions and opposite-sex
sexual attractions. Paul had an idea of
the concept of same-sex, opposite-sex, and sexual attractions to both sexes and
the range of sexual behavior.
· Catherine now goes into what she thinks Paul
understood homosexual sex to be. She
thinks that just because some of the Roman men had sex with other men and other
boys, that this means that there weren’t people who were in love with other
people of the same sex who were sexually attracted to people of the same sex
and open about it at that time. This
again is just odd. She actually thinks
that the Roman same-sex sexual behavior amounted to rape. Of course that happened sometimes. Just like it happens that same way today even
between two people who are openly gay in their sexual behavior. Gay men rape other gay men today. Straight men rape gay men today. Gay men rape straight men today. Does the NALT project support this behavior? 6:26 minutes in
· John’s summary at this point is inaccurate.
· Again, John doesn’t define homosexual, so when
he refers to the concept of, homosexuality is a sin, he isn’t stating whether
that is about behavior or attractions or orientation or identity.
·
It’s odd that John equates the concept of, sell
your possessions and give to the poor, with the concept of poverty. Maybe God wants to then bless you with much
more, after you give at one time, your possessions to the poor. Of course, John doesn’t define what he means
by the term, the poor. And what if you
have time or money or investments and not actual possessions? How does that fit in?
· Catherine isn’t even addressing the various
viewpoints of Christians today of what the concept of a camel passing through
the eye of a needle meant then.
· So, it’s even more odd that Catherine talks
about how the context is important to consider, when they haven’t yet
considered the context of what they have been speaking about. 7:26 minutes in
·
And then Catherine goes into the concept of
women and head covering in church.
Hummm, in Paul’s time, most people didn’t meet in church but in
homes.
· They adjust accordingly, Catherine says, about
how people understand the cultural context of when a statement was made.
· John says that without context we can’t tell
what is a crime or a horrible deed. Yet,
they continue to fail to present the context of the culture in the time of
either the Old Testament or in the time that Paul was writing.
·
It’s so odd that they talk about context in
terms of killing, when it is far from obvious even right now today in the
discussions about Syria’s use of chemical weapons, as to what is moral killing
from Christians’ viewpoints. Assad
believes that his government is justly killing the terrorists trying to topple
his government. The last thing that
Christians agree about is what is just killing of other people. 8:20 minutes in
·
Drunkenness, lust and lying, Catherine says, that
the apostle Paul addresses in the same text that he addresses same-sex sexual
behavior. This again, is odd that she
emphasizes that she doesn’t think that Christians today think that they
are “Never to commit any degree of those
sins.” Some Christians today don’t drink
alcohol specifically because of this.
Some Christians today know that they will lust over other people of the
same sex a lot more in certain settings so they avoid those settings. Some Christians today have a broad range of
different meanings for what is a lie.
· And it appears that Catherine takes wine as
opposed to grape juice when she takes communion.
· Catherine talks about a passing lustful thought,
but she doesn’t talk about the biblical concept of, when lust has conceived, it
brings forth sin. She tries to justify a
little white lie to not hurt someone’s feelings. Is that what they are doing by posting on my
recent comments, “Your comments are awaiting moderation?” So, what is the
context of their deciding to treat me this way?
Since they think context is so important. 9:05 minutes in
· Now John uses the term, anti-gay Christians,
when he hasn’t even begun to define that term.
He hasn’t even defined the term, Christian, or the term, gay. Why would he thus then feel he needs to
define the term, anti-?
· Listen to this phrasing: “The only one they
always judge in absolute terms.”
Really…..? How can a careful
thinking person take this video seriously, no matter what position on any of
these issues the person holds? “Only one
where context is never taken into account [intimate homosexual sexual behavior],”
he goes on to say. 9:28 minutes in
· This is odd, “the only thing on Paul’s list that
straight people are never tempted to commit,” he says (about intimate same-sex
sexual behavior). What….? Of course some straight men and some straight
woman too, do, and not just are tempted to, commit this act that Paul defines
as sin. Do they not know about all the
straight men who seek sexual favors from younger gay men or gay boys? Often these men say that the gay men and gay
boys know how to give oral sex to them better than their wives do.
· Catherine says, “Christians are being very
hypocritical in using the clobber passages…” when she hasn’t yet defined who
the term, Christians, refers to. She
keeps using this blanket term of, Christians, and then is thinking only about a
certain subset of that segment of the population when she is trying to make her
points. It’s just continues to be so
odd. 9:43 minutes in
· I need to take another break from listening to
this. Just over 3 minutes to do
yet. This is one of the poorest
explanations of the pro-gay Christian positions that I have ever heard. And trust me, I have literally heard
hundreds.
·
It’s as though Catherine doesn’t think that
there are heterosexual Christians who seek to follow Paul’s suggestions, and at
the same time she is thinking that people who define themselves as gay and
Christian, all want to affirm sexual monogamy in a relationship. And thus far, the time frame of those
relationships, sometimes referred to as loving, long-term same-sex relationships,
hasn’t been defined by John or Catherine, when they are presenting their
position here of same-sex relationships.
·
It’s just odd how definitive Catherine is in her
presentation of her viewpoint.
· Why does John contrast sex in a rape with sex in
a marriage? There is also rape in
marriages.
· John tries to say his position applies to
same-sex relationships that are as committed as heterosexual
relationships. While John knows that a
large minority if not a majority of heterosexual sex by Christians happens
outside of a Christian marriage today.
· And then John goes right back after this, to
trying to say that God does not condemn LGBT people, when he again, hasn’t
defined who falls into this category.
And that he hasn’t defined what sexual behavior he feels is sinful for
people, other than rape, for people entering into intimate same-sex or intimate
opposite-sex sexual behavior. 11:17
minutes in
·
John tries to state so definitively that
homosexual sex is no more sinful than heterosexual sex, without defining what
sexual expression beyond rape he feels is sinful.
· Catherine tries to suggest that the reason that
gay youth, which she hasn’t yet defined who they are, are more likely to commit
suicide than straight youth, is that their intimate sexual expression, except
for rape, is not sinful. When the
implication is that there is some level of commitment first that justifies the
sexual behavior as not being sinful.
·
Thus, since Catherine has not defined the term,
gay, whether this term also refers to people who are bisexual, transsexual,
transgendered, intersex, and whether gay refers to identity, orientation,
attractions, behavior or romantic attraction, her statements are
unsupported. 11:53 minutes in
· Now John moves into bullying. As though bullying only happens toward people
who John and Catherine define as gay. As
though bullying doesn’t happen toward bisexual youth by youth who are only
attracted sexually to people of the same sex.
· Again, john hasn’t defined the term, gay people,
that he uses again here. He tries so say
that the segment of Christians that he considers anti-gay, believe that gay
people are an offense to God – again when John hasn’t defined whether his
definition of the term, gay people, refers to their intimate sexual behavior or
their sexual attractions, or orientation or identity. Thus this statement by John is inaccurate. Even Pope Francis recently tried to explain
the position of the Catholic church on the differences between same-sex sexual
attractions and same-sex sexual behavior.
· And of course, they haven’t defined what the
term, LGBT-affirming Christians, means to them.
Does this include, for instance, the person who is a Christian who is bisexual
and who chooses to be sexually intimate in a heterosexual marriage.
· John and Catherine’s ending is even more odd
than all of their positions and explanations.
They just seem so angry.
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