This is what Nicholas Alan said on August 1st. on Twitter:
Hey Guys Thanks for checking out my page! see me play the lover in Steve Grand's VIRAL youtube Music Video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjiyjYCwNyY
Now that's an interesting way of describing the role he had in AAB of declining Steve Grand's romantic advances. If that is what Nick sees as being someone's lover - to reject their advances but still be their friend, that does sound more parallel to his interactions with people on the gayhoopla site.